Bend Over Oil: Bend the Will of Others to Your Own - Lodestone

Please use extreme caution in using any Bend Over Oil formula, Twichery's or anyone else's because these controlling herbs really work!  Unlike our other controlling formulas (Do As I Say, Controlling Oil, and As You Please), this one has some subtlety to it; it is more PERSUASIVE and INFLUENCING than controlling. Your target simply finds himself/herself adopting your general agenda. It's good for when the other person simply needs a boost of self-discipline with regard to a task you have every right to require; an employee who sleeps on the job is an example of this; you're paying the person, so you have a right to require the work they've already committed to do.  Any Bend Over Oil can indeed be used for unethical purposes, therefore it is a good idea while using this formula to be mindful of karma.  We recommend that this oil NOT touch the other person, but rather that you find a hair or a nail clipping or something unwanted that belongs to the person and then place it within the qu